At a recent conference, I attended a session by a representative from the Kevin Love Foundation, where the quote “The conversation is the relationship” from Susan Scott’s Fierce Conversations deeply resonated with me. The session emphasized the importance of having difficult conversations, both with others and with ourselves. We were challenged to identify which emotions are easiest and hardest to express, prompting self-reflection.
The presenter also shared the Kevin Love Foundation’s principle: “Everyone is going through something.” Kevin Love, who experienced a panic attack during a televised game at 28, founded the Kevin Love Fund (KLF) to promote equity between mental and physical health.
Inspired to learn more, I found an article emphasizing how honest conversations are key to building strong relationships. For CASA volunteers, these conversations are crucial for connecting with children and making an impact. Open communication with everyone involved in a case, including supervisors, is essential to avoid burnout and maintain program strength.
This year, I’ve learned the value of difficult conversations and active listening. In my role, I strive to understand new volunteers’ experiences to support them effectively during training. We encourage you to reach out if overwhelmed—supervisors are here to help. When talking to your CASA child, create a space for open expression. Real connections take time, but they’re invaluable.

Domestic violence and child abuse often go hand in hand, creating a challenging environment for those we work with and advocate for. The impact of domestic violence is not limited to the immediate victims but extends to witnesses, including children who may experience severe consequences from an early age—sometimes even before birth.

This insightful article explores how domestic violence affects individuals across different age groups, highlighting its impact on developmental and behavioral growth. Unfortunately, these negative effects can contribute to a troubling cycle, with some children growing up to perpetuate the cycle of abuse.

We encourage you to read the article below to better understand the experiences of some of our CASA children. By gaining this insight, we can enhance our role as advocates and better support these children in overcoming the odds. Let’s work together to be the best sidekicks we can and help break the cycle.

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Children come into foster care for a range of reasons. Whether it’s physical or sexual abuse, neglect, homelessness, or addiction there is one thing they all have in common: they all have “Adverse Childhood Experiences” or “ACE’s”. ACE’s often have a lifelong effect on a child’s life. As a CASA volunteer, it is helpful to understand how nurturing, supportive relationships can prevent lasting harms from ACE’s. The following article from the American Society for the Positive Care of Children (SPCC) explains the types of ACE’s and how they can bring on toxic stress.

Back to School! What an exciting time—the start of something new. However, for children in foster care, this "new" can also bring anxiety and fear. They have already experienced significant changes in their lives, and the start of a new school year can mean even more changes, such as new schools and new friends.
What can we do to help them overcome these stressful challenges? First and foremost, be there for them. Send a card, make a phone call, or go for an extra visit that month to see how school is going. Let them know that they are not alone. Encourage them to participate in extracurricular activities, and support foster parents in establishing routines for homework and bedtime.
Throughout the year, stay in contact with their teachers and administrators. Obtain progress reports and report cards, and ensure that any services they receive (such as 504 plans or IEPs) are up to date and being followed. If a child is moved during the school year, advocate for them to remain in the same school if it is in their best interest. Overall, be a constant presence in these children's lives. You never know how much you are doing by planting that seed of hope and encouragement.
Read more about "What back to school means for children in foster care" by clicking the artile title.

June is Reunification month in the foster care world. Here at CASA, we are always mindful that it is
almost always better for a child to be reunited with their family of origin if we can safely do so. Before
my time on staff, I was an advocate and one case that I was assigned to involved a sibling group.
Because the mom worked her case plan and also the obvious connection she exhibited when she visited
with her children, we happily recommended reunification. That was a wonderful day for both the mom
and her children. Several other cases have recently closed with reunification and the advocates on those
cases express relief and joy that the parents were able to complete their case plan and have custody of
their children again. The following article explains in further detail reunification efforts when it comes to
children in foster care.
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The sun is out, the temperature gauge is on the rise, and school is out. Sweet summertime is finally here. That means that it is time to get outside and get playing. Whether that is going hiking, fishing, or camping many families tend to use this time away from school to enjoy family time. Living in South Louisiana that usually includes some form of water sport since it gets so hot. Just a few safety reminders as we move into my favorite time of year.
HYDRATE- If you are outside you need to have some type of hydration. The more active you are, the more hydration you will need. We are encouraged to drink 8-10 cups of water daily. We can also eat water-rich foods to help in hydration such as peaches, oranges, grapes, strawberries, cucumbers and melons. If you will be outside for an extended period of time make sure to have a refillable water bottle and somewhere to fill it or extra bottles of water. In addition to hydration, you want to protect your skin from the sun's harmful UV rays. Do this by wearing long-sleeved shirts or by utilizing sunscreen. Just make sure to use a minimum SPF of 30 or higher. Remember to reapply every two hours to continue to protect your skin. Finally, protect your family. Be mindful of your surroundings at all times, especially around the water. It takes only a few seconds for a fun outing to turn tragic.

For more summertime safety tips click the article title for the link to the American Red Cross.

The world our children are growing up in differs vastly from the one adults experience. Issues like sexual predators, addictive features, suicide, eating disorders, unrealistic beauty standards, and bullying are now everyday challenges, easily accessible through digital platforms.

On January 31, 2024, Meta’s founders and CEO, Mark Zuckerberg, addressed a room of grieving parents, acknowledging the tragic consequences of social media pressures on their children. Increasingly, CEOs of major social media companies, including Meta, TikTok, and others, find themselves testifying before the Senate Judiciary Committee as concerns mount over the impact of social media on young lives. Each day brings new studies highlighting the detrimental effects of social media on children's mental health.

Even in nurturing environments, children are vulnerable to negative mental health outcomes due to social media's influence. However, those in foster care face even greater risks, often struggling with impulse control and a strong desire for connection and belonging. "Keeping Children Safe Online," delves into these dangers and offers guidance for parents and caregivers on protecting children from online threats.

It's impractical to completely shield today's children from social media, given their familiarity and adeptness with technology. Instead, fostering a supportive environment where trust and open communication thrive is crucial. This allows adults to monitor and guide children's online interactions, ensuring their safety and well-being.
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A CASA volunteer may get to a comfortable place when the child in foster care that they are advocating for is in a stable situation. There are fewer unknowns and everyone seems to be moving towards permanency. Now that is a sweet spot to be in. But what happens when circumstances change overnight, with little or no explanation? Unfortunately, for some of our CASA children, a stable placement is not always guaranteed. Changing placements and having to form new relationships can be hard. This change not only affects the child; it also affects the advocates. They are required to contact new foster parents, possibly new school officials, and/or new service providers to obtain needed information. This may cause anxiety and some hesitation because the advocates have no idea what personalities they will encounter. Will they be flexible or chatty? Will they want more information that an advocate is allowed to share?  And the big question would be how to connect with new individuals.

Remember foster parents and other service providers can also feel like they are under a microscope. Building relationships are key to obtaining information. As I always say, advocates are information gatherers, not givers; but that doesn't mean we can't have positive working relationships with those who are providing a service to our CASA child/ren. Click the article title to view.

We encourage our CASA volunteers who are advocating for any child from birth to five years old to familiarize themselves with child developmental milestones to make recommendations for appropriate resources or interventions for the child. This blog outlines a summary of development milestones with a link to a more in-depth explanation of each milestone.

The brain is so fascinating and complex. It is the core of who we are and controls how we feel, how we think, and every aspect of our lives. The brain has been described as the most complex structure in the known universe. Learning to control your thoughts and process your emotions are skills that are not easily accomplished. These skills are even more difficult to accomplish with an ADHD brain. We know the children we work with have to deal with many triggers that can affect their emotions. Anger is an emotion we see and may manifest in other ways. The following article helps explain how the ADHD brain works and gives tips on how to learn to control anger in a healthier way.